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Lent at St. Stephen

Welcome to Lent at St. Stephen! On Ash Wednesday, we begin a 40 day journey of penance in peparation for the Lord's resurrection. Below you will find helpful resources to encourage you to keep a holy Lent this year.

And don't forget about our Lenten Newsletter! This easy-to-navigate newsletter is a condensed version of this webpage and is recommended to be used as a quick reference guide to all that St. Stephen has to offer this Lenten season. Download it here! (2 MB, PDF)

If you would like to dedicate an Easter Flower or Flowers in honor of or in memory of a loved one, please fill out this form (86 KB, PDF) and submit it to the Parish Office no later than Sunday, March 25.

Lenten Guidelines for Fasting and Abstinence

Q. I understand that Catholics ages 18 to 59 should fast on Ash Wednesday and on Good Friday, but what exactly are the rules for these fasts?
A. Fasting on these days means we can have only one full, meatless meal. Some food can be taken at the other regular meal times if necessary, but combined they should be less than a full meal. Liquids are allowed at any time, but no solid food should be consumed between meals.

Q. Are there exemptions other than for age from the requirement to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday?
A. Those that are excused from fast and abstinence outside the age limits include the physically or mentally ill including individuals suffering from chronic illnesses such as diabetes. Also excluded are pregnant or nursing women. In all cases, common sense should prevail, and ill persons should not further jeopardize their health by fasting.

Q. I understand that all the Fridays of Lent are days of abstinence from meat, but I'm not sure what is classified as meat. Does meat include chicken and dairy products?
A. Abstinence laws consider that meat comes only from animals such as chickens, cows, sheep or pigs --- all of which live on land. Birds are also considered meat. Abstinence does not include meat juices and liquid foods made from meat. Thus, such foods as chicken broth, consomme, soups cooked or flavored with meat, meat gravies or sauces, as well as seasonings or condiments made from animal fat are technically not forbidden. However, moral theologians have traditionally taught that we should abstain from all animal-derived products (except foods such as gelatin, butter, cheese and eggs, which do not have any meat taste). Fish are a different category of animal. Salt and freshwater species of fish, amphibians, reptiles, (cold-blooded animals) and shellfish are permitted.

Forming Our Faith

Fr. Scott Nolan, Brittany Renne (our Coordinator of Religious Education and Youth Ministry), and many dedicated volunteers have been working diligently to offer parishioners many opportunities for spiritual growth and community this Lenten season.  You are welcome to participate in one, many, or all of them!

Stations of the Cross

During the Liturgical Season of Lent, all are invited to pray the Stations of the Cross inside the church.  This time of prayer allows us to truly understanding the meaning of Jesus's Passion and Death.

The Stations will be prayed every Friday during Lent at 6:00 p.m. inside the church.

Stations with Students
Join the students of St. Stephen as they pray the Stations of the Cross on Friday afternoons.

February 16 at 2:15 p.m.
February 23 at 12:45 p.m.
March 2 at 1:30 p.m.
March 16 at 2:15 p.m.
March 23 at 12:45 p.m.

The Stations of the Cross will not be prayed with our school students on Friday, March 9 at they are not in session that day.

The 8th grade students will perform the Living Stations of the Cross on Holy Thursday, March 29 at 1:00 p.m. in the church.

Lenten Soup Series

On Friday evenings during Lent, parishioners (and guests!) enjoy a simple supper of soup and bread following the Stations of the Cross at 6:00 pm. Each week a different group of the parish provides several pots of delicious vegetarian soup. 

2018 Lenten Soup Supper Host Schedule

February 16 - CANCELLED

February 23 - School Faculty

March 9 - St. Stephen Choir

March 16 - Ladies' Thursday Morning Bible Study

March 23 - Parish Office Staff

Volunteers are always needed to make these suppers a success! If you are interested in helping with set up or clean up, please contact Kigman Davis at .

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Word on Fire with Bishop Robert Barron

Once again, Bishop Barron will be offering daily email reflections throughout the season of Lent. Each day from Ash Wednesday through Easter, Bishop Barron will send you a short email with an uplifting reflection pertaining to the daily Gospel reading, uniting us all even more with the Church's sacred liturgy. The best part? It's TOTALLY FREE! Sign up online at and join Bishop Barron and over 300,00 people on this journey through Lent.

Sacrament of Reconciliation

Lent is a season of penance and preparation. During Lent, we prepare for the highest Holy Day on our calendar. There is no better way to prepare our hearts for our Risen Lord, then to take advantage of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. This Lenten season, there are additional opportunities to celebrate the sacrament here at St. Stephen and within our diocese (see below).  Click here (2 MB, PDF) for a great how-to guide if you are unsure how to participate in the sacrament.

The Light is ON for YouThe Light is ON for You: An Evening of Penance - March 15
We invite you to come and experience the healing love of Christ through the sacrament of reconciliation.  On Thursday, March 15, nearly every Catholic church in our diocese (including St. Stephen) will open their doors from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. to offer the sacrament of reconciliation. Priests will be readily available to hear confessions during that time.

UPDATE: Due to a last-minute scheduling change, our parish will not be participating in this event. Please contact Immaculate Heart of Mary or St. Paul the Apostle for details on how they will be participating in this evening of penance.


Giving alms or contributing to charity is one of the three pillars of Lenten practice.  During this Lent, we have several special opportunities for almsgiving.  Special collections are conducted during the Lenten season are listed below.

CRS Rice Bowl

This Lent, our parish will once again participate in the CRS (Catholic Relief Services) Rice Bowl, a faith-in-action program that will help you experience Lenten spirituality by living in solidarity with the people in need around the world.  Use your cardboard CRS Rice Bowl and Lenten Calendar to guide your Lenten prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.  We will be collecting the CRS Rice Bowls at the end of Lent.

P.S. Did you know that the CRS Rice Bowl has a free Lenten app?  Download it from the Apple Store or Google Play and get daily Lenten reflections right on your mobile device!

Catholic Relief Services

The CRS (Catholic Relief Services) Campaign will be held March 10 & 11.  The CRS Collection supports Catholic organizations carrying out international relief and solidarity efforts. Programs include relief and resettlement for victims of persecution, war, and natural disasters, development projects to improve living conditions for the poor, legal and support services for poor immigrants, peace and reconciliation work for people suffering from violence, and advocacy on behalf of the powerless.

Children's Offertory Envelopes

Did you know there are Children's Offertory Envelopes in the back of the church? Take an envelope or grab a whole box for your child to fill out their Time, Talent, and Treasure as they begin to learn the importance of good Stewardship.

Giving to Your Parish

Please click on the links below if you would like to enroll in electronic giving or update your existing offering.

Make a donation to the Church using your credit card

Electronic Giving Form (102 KB, PDF)

Other Important Dates

March Baptisms - Sunday, March 11 following the 10:30 a.m. Mass

Worldwide Marriage Retreat - March 16 through March 18, 2018. Looking for more understanding, closeness, and romance in your marriage? Join a Worldwide Marriage Encounter to renew and enrich your marriage. For more information and to apply, please visit or call the Wohlner's at (734) 531-9191.

Family Promise Volunteer Week - February 25 through March 4. We are still in need of volunteers to help with moving, meals, babysitting, and desk coverage. Sign up to volunteer now! For more information, contact Sean and Kristie Burns at (the "u" is left out intentionally) or .

40 Days for Life - Can you spare one hour of your time to end abortion? Once again, St. Stephen will be participating in the peaceful prayer campaign 40 Days for Life. Our day to pray is Wednesday, March 21 from 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. Sign ups will soon be available. Please contact Hank Milanowski at (616) 243-2595.